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The Koi Blog

Notes on dating, psychology, safety, and building something better — updated regularly.

It’s not you. It’s the mechanism. If you’ve deleted a dating app and reinstalled it three times this…

The conversation felt real. That’s exactly the problem. Online dating scams don’t usually look like scams while they’re…

You’ve probably noticed a pattern. Here’s why. Maybe you keep getting drawn to people who take three days…